To be the smoothest man. To be loudest, would be rude. To be smartest, would be no fun. To be flashiest, would be the wrong type of attention. And to be too nice, would be un-attractive. But to be sharp, like an eagle, like a soldier. To be a gangster but a good type. To be well dressed and still rough. To read between the lines and read a room. To be emotionally intelligent and still set boundaries.